just wanted to blog cause i have not been doing so for a long long time.
found something that really sets u thinking. " it is quite funny how all of us look at our parents and resolve never to do those things to our kids, to give them everything they need, everything they want, and no one ever realises that it's never going to work out, not because your good intentions are misplaced, but only that thirty years down the road when our kids start feeling the same things towards us, it is only then that we realise and we realise too late that we have become the parents we never wanted to become, because we, too, have imposed our own image of what our children should be according to what we could never become. " quoted it from someone and i think its really really true. so true that it really scared me when i read it. i mean, if u really sit down and think and read it again, u realy realise that that's what's gonna happen. think about it, your mum doesn't like u to use the com so much. but u want to use it. and then u start thinking " how could u do this to me? i'm never going to do this to my kid. i'm gonna let him play the com as and when he wants. i'm going to let him use th phone all day long. i'm gonna do this i'm gonna do that... " but do u really know if thats what YOUR kid wants?
its the same thing as what's happening to u and your parents now. they think that playing on the com is bad for u it affects your studies.. blah blah blah. but then thats what they THINK. not what u think.
and when u are a parent and u want to let your child do all the things that u were not allowed to do in your childhood. its still what U WANTED to do. it may not be what your child WANTS. your parents is in the same situation now. whatever they do they think that its good for u, but is it really? only u know yourself in side out. sometimes even U dun know yourself inside out. so what makes your parents think they know u the best?
